Jinkies, reading others threads and getting inspiration...

thinking about my sitch...I have it pretty good, if you could say that ANYONE had it good on this board.

And yet, it is not enough.

I know there are some who will say what a brat I am that I cannot be happy with my sitch...but I think there is much stagnation in my sitch and, because my sitch is 'pretty good', both my H and I have become quite comfortable in the basic limbo that we live in.

he pays the bills...but yet I have to hear about every little freaking thing---which I don't share here because you would probably try to convince me to do some talking with a baseball bat (I think of Annie everytime I get this visual!) to make him shut up.

At some point, you have had ENOUGH.

Yet, that is an oxy-moron because what he gives is NOT enough yet i have had ENOUGH of his bs....now how does that work?

ANyone with any suggestions or potential answers, please feel free to let me know.


Aug '06: H moved out
July '08: H had a kid with the OW
May 12 '09: emancipation day

"Life moves pretty fast. You don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." -Ferris Bueller