I'm going to have to read that book, the 5LL and figure it out. I think it would really help.
I think it would, too. That's why I asked if you knew your H's LLs. Individuals often have two.
And for all you know, PT (physical touch) may not be one of them.
If his LL is WOA (words of affirmation), you can compliment him and give him praise. AOS (acts of service), do little things for him that you know he would appreciate. Gifts, get him a little something just to show you care. QT (quality time), and this is a hard one to implement without coming off as chasing, invite him along on family outings with the kids.
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
