It's ok to have feelings about what your husband is doing. It's not normal to be able to turn then off as our spouses do. Besides, anger is a good thing. It means your starting to heal.
So what I got out of what you wrote about your session was that if you stay strong, and somewhat tough, he may just back down. I got to the point where I dug my heels in and said nope this is what I want. I guess I out stared him because he gave in. If your ex really wants this overwith, he'll cave.
