on hold

[addie]

Stella, my sitch is just coming to light among some family members. My sister and her BF were visiting so I had to share details (I know they won't divulge anything). I found out yesterday that H told one of his brothers (although I'm sure he omitted the fact that our S is due to his EA/PA). I now feel that I have to tell H's SIL's that I am close to but have been avoiding. I know that the news will start to get around. They will all think that H is a jerk and will tell me to not even bother with him. I know I have to make my own decision.