GF, I think H is addicted to her though b/c he checks frequently to see if OW has texted him. I don't think he even realizes he does that at this point it's such a habit for him. I don't know what OW's motivation is for the constant messaging, but think it is rude of her when H spends so little time with the kids, and then she has to text him whatever time he does spend with them.
I do think OW's probably a little worried about me b/c H has probably told her I've made every change he's ever wanted plus more. I've lost tons of weight, etc. She probably is nervous. But yet I am sure he will be moving out tomorrow b/c he says I made the changes too late (because he has now met the perfect woman is that what he means???). I do think it will be interesting to see what happens with their affair now that it will be "real" and not just texting and hotel visits.
I will still be seeing H even when he moves out b/c he will have to visit the kids here on the weekend because he will be living with OW. So we will see...I think I will be OK no matter what happens. I do hope H doesn't file for divorce right away which I have a feeling will be the next thing OW will be pressuring H to do. First I think she pressured or encouraged him to move out, and then once he does that, I think she will start pressuring or encouraging him to file for divorce. Hopefully H will get tired of her trying to control him, but since I am the complete opposite maybe that is what he is looking for in a relationship now? Karen
