You asked:
What do you think about this? To much time away? To much space?

My answers:
I think it's the best thing right now. No. No.

Remember Tree, you have no control over what she does. Even if she does the things you are assuming...she will do them anyway, regardless of your reaction.

All you can do is what is best for you and yours.

You should probably go back on your notes that (I hope) you took when talking with your DB coach Jody...I look back on mine all the time.

Me: 54
Her: 50 and sexy as hell
M: 32yrs
T: 34yrs
Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection"
Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire"
She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08!
Everything's GREAT!