Hadn't realsied my thread locked as I didn't have time to post yesterday.

Nothing new to say except I saw my L today to set in motion the formal splitting of finances. She puts lots of things into persepctive for me so for now at least I feel better.

Some good news S15 won £50 on some premium bonds. Bad news is that cheque is made payable to H (as it was MIL who bought bonds in the first place) so will have to liaise with him to get the money into S15s bank account. Just sent an email for now.


Me 43
XH 45
M 2.7.88
Divorce 7.10.09
Kids D20,S17 & D15