Have a nice relaxing time on your trip. You and the kids totally deserve it!

I am in the same boat as you with the whole GAL/DBing. I feel like everytime I make some gains, I end up messing it all up again and do something wrong (most likely contacting the OW or starting to cry). Detaching is almost impossible when you have such a deep love and caring for another person.

Try to keep your mind off your troubles while you are gone.

Sara

Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08