I, too, got the crocodile tears from my wife a couple of times thru her affair. Once was when she asked me out for coffee, "so we can just talk," and she BEGGED me not to "take the boys away from me" (this was after I served her with D, including going for custody of our sons). Told me how wrong she'd been, how she was sorry she hurt me, etc. . . .
. . . and then when I told her I would "think about it," and that I was not yet ready to withdraw ANYTHING, as she was still seeing OM, she continued to have her affair for another two months.
