I guess the biggest setback is, I know this is not her, only because of the M we had that was good for many years. Nobody saw this coming...
Chevelle,
I know this all too well. The thing I found difficult to accept was the woman I thought I was married to was NOT who Dodo REALLY was... I think Swashy said it best... Who we are is determined by our actions... Based on their actions, your W and Dodo are both bad women...
No_More_Dodo
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret