I'm not sure if you have read the situation right, I want to go to the party, I want W to go to the party with me, and my family want W to go to the party. If W and I turned up together no one will make an issue of anything, and we would stand together man and wife, but she doesn't see it that way.
I told her of the invite and she immediately said and I quote " There is no point in me going because no one will talk to me".
So what do I do, make an issue of it with W ? Do I go round my family and get a pledge from everyone to be nice to her. If I do then that's making a big thing over nothing. It's just a party for a 2 year old.
It's things like this where I feel W and I should talk to make sure we are on the same page, but her way of moving forward is to try to pick up from where we were before the A and not really talk about anything. I think I've expressed doubts about that way before.
Anyway I'm not going to make a big issue of it but I'm going to tell we I think she should attend the party with me.
