cw, I feel really badly for you...but you really need to learn how to keep your emotions in check!! You are seriously hurting your chances, if every time H sees you, he is getting backed into a corner. I can appreciate what you are going through, but you MUST get a handle on the situation, or he will head for the hills!
What happened to validating, agreeing and biting your tongue?
Lately, I don't know how many times I've agreed with my W about something I apparently did at some point in the past, just to let her vent. But it's been a lot.
It's a process, and to give it a chance, you must let it work, cw....
Me: 54 Her: 50 and sexy as hell M: 32yrs T: 34yrs Bomb: Sept 26-07 "lost our emotional connection" Bomb 2: Dec 25-07 she's "not feeling desire" She asked if she could come home Apr 26-08! Everything's GREAT!
