while you backed off was your H angry at you? did you have any contact? if so how long before he contacted you?
H and I haven't spoke for over 2 weeks. He did call the other day and was VERY VERY angry. I told him I wasn't going to listen to it and hung up. Haven't heard from him since. I really have no idea what is going on. Of course I fear the worst.
I am fine with the backing off because I don't need the drama anymore.
M41 H42 D17 Adopted N14 M22 T24 "Bomb" 4/07 Sep 8/07 Admitted OW 11/07(only to me) OW back 12/4/07 PA on off thru 7/08 says done w/OW but not coming home 8/08 D final 7/09 Moving on and up!!