I brought this subject up with H, we go to mediation tomorrow, and he said since no one paid for his college he didnt' see why he had to put in writing that he will pay for the kids. Selfish alien @#%@#$#@! I'd give my right arm so the kids would have a great future, but he wont' even agree to pay for 33% or even books. Even if we were to have a battle in court, I dont' see how he can ever be forced to agree to pay towards college.
As it is --knock on wood-- we are settling everything in mediation, and if he doesn't want to hep with college I dont' think there is much I can do about it.
Be not afraid...I will repay you for the years the locusts have eaten Joel2
30something 2kids survivor of S, MLC, A, D I have peace in my heart, at last.