Ohhh Happy Thats a subject thats been going around in my mind too.
You are right, why should we trust them to come thru w/ their promises to our children when they didnt keep their promises to us
Its funny you say he was nitpicking, my ex did the exact same thing w/ me about my S, next thing I knew he was telling S he wasnt going to pay for his last year of college!! Said have your mother now, ya know the mother he left after being a SAHM for 15 yrs and was struggling at a retail job!
So to say you have a gut feeling may be right but I really hope for you and the boys sake it is not! Maybe he is in a bad mood, maybe hes going thru a jealous or envious mode w/ the boys , young, just starting out, hes thinking. Why not me?? These mlc will make it al about them!!
If it makes you feel better Happy, mine did listen to reason, thank goodness, I used a bit of guilt and disgust and he gave in, and paid for the last year. Sometimes they just need a good cage rattling.
Please keep us posted
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