Hi Ann, you are always so supportive and you'll never know how much that means to me. Yes it meant the world to me to see my H respond with some real emotion! He didn't say but a couple of words....but his tears said it all.
I have to go b/c it is coming a storm. I'll talk to you tomorrow.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!