Starting over and intimacy after divorce.

[Willing NJ H]

Well, I did all the divorce busting I could do and my marriage ended. I've felt very good, am in my new place, and the divorce is almost final with no child support or alimony and joint physical custody. Things are friendly with my ex, and I decided to start dating again. I'm in NO HURRY, and am taking things easy for the most part. I've been intimate with one woman since my wife and all went well. Now that I have my own home, don't get to see my daughter 3-4 days a week and am finally realizing that my life is starting over and my marriage is truly "dead", i'm on a bit of a roller coaster again. I have met someone very nice that is also in no hurry. We enjoy spending time together and are both very attracted to one another, but I now have no sex drive. The stress of the life changes and divorce are getting to me a bit out of no where again, and now I get nervous and all stressed about being intimate with this new woman. I've never been in this position, and didn't feel this way with the one other woman I was with just prior to getting my new home. I am wondering if anyone has experienced this and/or can give some advice on how to deal with it. I know it will take time, but i'm adding my own stresses to this new mess as I've never had a situation where I didn't get sroused until now. I don't want to push this woman away, but don't quite know where to go with this. I've read several articles about sex after divorce, and loss of sex drive due to stress and emotions, but how can I deal with it. I read and lived DB and DR, and it helped me in ways I could've never imagined. The DBers were a lifesaver, and I still check in from time to time. I know I'm not as experienced as some, and am new to divorce, and am again looking to the DBers for input. Thanks a ton for any consideration/comments.