Back on the Roller Coaster - OW still around

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FA,

We don't get a lot of snow here and when we do it doesn't last long before it's gone. Our 12" was all melted after two or three days.

I don't think we can forget our S's infidelity, but we can forgive it. I agree with spending more and more time together doing fun things will chip away at the wall. Build new memories. How does H like your dog?

I think my W is going into acceptance, she has reconnected with our S's and is awake more now, she doesn't seem depressed as much. Saw her today at meeting with attys. She doesn't want much from the house her knick knacks, cooking stuff and the love seat. I've got to decide if I want to keep the house or sell it. I also have to sell our 57 Chevy. I will meet with her over the weekend to list what she wants. I was hoping she might change her mind, but it doesn't look that way. She said she is going to go without medical insurance as her employer doesn't have good ins. Offered a legal separation where I pay support and she can stay on my ins until she finds a better job with better benefits. She doesn't want that either.

Mike