Hello Mr. MLC part deux!!

[mymonkeybug]

LMAO!!! FG, you are such a doll to post while ill.

The other country just left from his Thursday night visit and I let him stay longer than I told him he could yesterday. I told him I needed space and time to process what he said yesterday and that he could come tonight as usual but only stay for a half hour or so. Well he asked when I wanted him to leave and I told him he could stay the usual time. I think that blew him away.

I also DID NOT bring up yesterday and what we discussed and I am sure he fully expected me to. I stayed pretty much away from him and wouldn't you know he came to me making small talk. He had even sent me his usual Thursday night text while on his way asking if I needed anything so this time I said yes please some milk and he obliged.

I talked to him about the parent teacher conference with son's teacher yesterday and he seemed glad I did.

I had also gotten my hair cut today and some new color added and he couldn't seem to stop looking and mentioning it. He put the kids in bed, yep our bed, yep they still sleep with me since he left. I walked him to the door as usual so I could lock it behind him and he said thank you and sorry. ??????? I assumed he meant sorry because he could hear the kids from upstairs crying now and I told him, "Oh this is nothing it will really hit in another 10 minutes."

So Forrest, I will be in Massachusettes Sat. morning with the kids for 6 days and you probably won't see me post anything until I get back unless I have some free time to get on a computer somewhere at one of the aunt's or uncle's homes. You want me to stay away at least until Monday? Why? Venting here is good. I will say though that I feel relief that he is doing something, not what I wanted him to do but he is at least making movement. We like it when the other country makes movement right? Even if bad movement? Come on reassure me a little.

So anyway, goodnight and I hope you are feeling better soon. Can't promise I will vacuum naked or even woodwork naked but I will do something. I am seeing the lawyer just to know exactly what I need to be looking at here. This in no way means I will be acting as I refuse to file anything. He walked out so he files, get my drift? I will not concede to the other country by giving it the satisfaction of doing it's dirty work.