Yes, I am not planning on doing anything with both our names on it. My lawyer had stated that the house can wait. The repairs can be done later and are not needed to be done right now. All of the cards and joint things have been locked down. I am NOT running my bills up. I am using this time to help force me out of debt and improving everything. It is gonna be tight, but it can happen.
I am still trying to stay positive but i really wonder if things will ever get better. I am trying to DB and thinking that I am doing it right, but seeing no real changes in her or our R, it is hard. Anyway, I am staying positive.
Ken Me: 37 Her: 38 Son: 8 (spina bifida) Son:2 M 6/24/1994 S 1/21/2008 Original Sitch