I think you need to detach more. It's damn hard, so I don't say that lightly. I've gotten better at it, but still have my moments when I try to get inside her head. Guess what? Those moments always leave me nowhere. You can't get inside her head. It's clear she's in a fog and there's nothing you can do about it. You get to decide how long you are willing to hang around. You don't know when, or if, this fog will lift. Most people here say it does lift, but who knows what your W will be like when it does lift? Maybe she'll want a new R with you, maybe she won't. Neither you nor anyone else can know that now. All you know is what you feel today. And then tomorrow comes, and you get to decide all over again.
Live YOUR life without her. Do what you want to do, and don't try to figure your out. You can't. You can read any of her actions 100 different ways and you'll never know which, if any, are correct unless she tells you. Detach.
