You know WL going dim doesn't do much to clear up what's wrong. The only way we ever know where we stand is to ask for what we want. I realize that he's not giving you that chance because he didn't listen to how you felt to begin with and now he's punishing you for instead of listening to how it made you feel.
Besides, he still owes you an apology for the way he handled the whole trip thing. Maybe this is just a big huge indicator and a glimpse of what a longterm relationship would be like with him. Could you live with that? Better to know now..........
