My plan is to be consistant, give her the distance she needs, but be there for her and love on her when I can.
even it is what she heard, she knows you are there and that is important. Don't repeat it. She heard it once. Now you can do it with your actions whenshe reaches out. You can only do your 180's, GAL, etc...let her see the new you do more of them if need be. Just make sure you are doing them for you. And give her space she needs. Hounding her will just push her further.
