You are absolutely right Michelle, I do have control over that. I will just backoff. I know he will be very busy since he is now working two jobs. I really think he needs to prove to himself that he can do everything alone. He doesn't want to be dependent on me.
You are also right that I am being negative, and jumping to conclusions. I just won't let it bother me if he doesn't call. At this point I kind of just want to go home and go to bed...so I am not sure that I will even care if he doesn't call. I need to detach again and not take things so personally
My voice is getting worse. I almost have to whisper and it hurts to talk I talk on the phone a good bit at work...so that sucks.
You really are like my H! He's gotta have Nyquil, too, whenever he's under the weather.
Michelle made some really good points, and like you said, try not to take it personally if H doesn't make contact. He could very well be busy juggling two jobs now!
I'm sure you have lots on your mind with work, H, and other things, but try to get plenty of rest this evening. Seems like you could really use it. Less stress, less mess!
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell
That is exactly what I did Michelle! Went home from work yesterday and slept until this morning. I feel better, but my throat is still hurting and my voice is still gone.
No word from H last night. For all I know, he could have been working. I just figured he would have at least called to let me know how the job is going. I haven't talked to him since Tuesday. Oh well, we'll see how the weekend goes. I am still not going to call him...hopefully he will make contact with me.
I talk on the phone a good bit at work...so that sucks.