Tia, or does anyone else have any opinions about the above two posts.
I agree with kissak that many H's here come and go many times. What scares me is that each time they walk out the door, it seems to dull our love for them even more.
I feel like I pushed him away, but it needed to be done since he is living a complete different lifestyle - like an adolescent. I could not live with the things he is doing and the way he is acting right now. So I know the techniques I used were things that make them run, but what was i supposed to do, just live without ever telling my thoughts and opinions?
My H text me today a message that I think was supposed to go to someone else (maybe an employee of his). It said: "we need him, or why bother"? I have no idea what it means or why I got it.
I also noticed that he took a picture off my wall with him yesterday when he came in to walk the dog. It was my only picture left of our only nephew and it was hanging in my bedroom. What a jerk, he already has many photos of our nephew and I feel like he did it so that I get the point that they are all no longer my family anymore. Also, why is he going into my bedroom when he is supposed to only be coming in to grab the dog and walk her? TIPPER
