You really are like my H! He's gotta have Nyquil, too, whenever he's under the weather.
Michelle made some really good points, and like you said, try not to take it personally if H doesn't make contact. He could very well be busy juggling two jobs now!
I'm sure you have lots on your mind with work, H, and other things, but try to get plenty of rest this evening. Seems like you could really use it. Less stress, less mess!
Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell