Dodo, she broke down to me right before this all happened, and said to stay away from her, that she is no good for me and I deserve better...when I told her I still loved her...she would cry and say ..please go find someone else...so this is really her problems I guess
I'm no expert on femalespeak... but one thing that I thought I DID know.. was that when a woman says that, then it's the most important time to stick by her, and show her that you believe she is worth it, rather than "doing what she's telling you to do" and finding someone else.
Dom R,
That is an interesting point. If Chevelle sticks with it, she may come back.... She may not.... I am betting she will come back... The REAL questions are the following:
Will she go to C to address her issues? Will Chevelle be able to get past her affairs? Will Chevelle be able to trust her 100% again?
The $1,000,000,000 question: Will she do this again?
When I told people about Dodo, MANY said she would be back... The problem is she ruined EVERYTHING we had.... As one person here wrote, "You CANNOT unring the bell." That is God's truth.
No_More_Dodo
"Chains do not hold a marriage together. It is threads, hundreds of tiny threads which sew people together through the years. That is what makes a marriage last --more than passion or even sex!" - Simone Signoret
