you'll be fine. I just know it. You went ahead and did what you probably felt a brave/crazy move today. I hope you realise, that the most important thing is to do what you feel is right for you and the kids (and him in the end) and I believe it was the right thing to do.
I am a bit worried you are trying to shake him up expecting that he will have a change of heart immediately. It would not surprise me if he did actually. But for him to finally get it IMO you must "support" your decision. I am pretty sure he wants to change things, he is just weak. You are giving him the motive, he must find the strength.
Do not judge what you did already saying you messed up. Stick to what you said if you believe it's the correct thing to do and let him think of what he wants in his life (which is your family I am sure of it).
Love K
Hang on. I am so tired I can't think in English. Sorry, I hope I make sense
