Jenny,
I'm sorry you are having to go thru more pain. Wise choice in making arrangements to see the lawyer. I agree w/ your reasoning that S does need to spend overnights w/ your H. I think though that your H asking for 40/60 is too much given S's age. Shame on H if he threatens to go for 50/50 if you don't agree to 40/60.


Me: 41
H: 42
DDs: 10 & 15
M: 19yrs.
Bomb: June 2007
Separated:10/28/07
previous threads
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=1270987&page=5&fpart=1