he hung out for an extra 45 minutes with me. I guess that's a good thing. He didn't mention anything about lunch tomorrow and neither did I. He likely forgot or something came up.. funny thing is that I'm not even disappointed.
H hanging out with you for an extra 45mins is GREAT! But the real reason I wanted to quote this was because I love that you weren't disappointed about the lack of mention of lunch. Sounds like you have really mastered "no expectations"....
I also thought something else you said was interesting.....
Originally Posted By: Where2gofromhere
I truly feel that we are in stage 2.. the friendship stage.. but at this point I'm not sure if we'll ever move out of it.. I know it's early days yet and I am becoming a more patient person throughout this experience.. but my intuition is kind of telling me that this is as far as we'll get. I don't know, I guess we'll see.
....because I feel completely the same in my situation, and I don't know the exact answer to it, other than to just keep going and be patient. But, you know, when I read your situation, it seems as though you have many positives coming here and there, and I wouldn't imagine you getting stuck in friendship from what I've read. Maybe patience and PMA are the answer.....I am going to try and remember that for myself too!
Hope you're having a good day!
L.xx
Walk on, walk on, with hope in your heart. And you'll never walk alone.
