Neecy, I forgot to thank you for that amazing compliment. (((Thank you!))) Not sure if that's how I truly feel inside, but I must admit that I do take pride in myself for having stuck with my sitch for this long. I know a lot of people would've probably threw in the towel a long time ago.

Thanks to you both as well, Karen and Sara. \:\)

BTW, I agree with Sara - I don't feel anyone should hide their feelings. Honesty and open communication are always best.

Personally, it takes me a few moments to put together what I want to say; unfortunately, I'm not quick on my feet when it comes to such things! When I express my thoughts and feelings to H, I want to be absolutely sure that I don't come across as controlling or placing blame.

I have to think before I speak and speak in a manner that will keep my H listening, and ultimately, understanding.

Getting over a painful experience is much like crossing monkey bars. You have to let go at some point in order to move forward. ~ Joseph Campbell