A dress made from colored condoms? That's something I've never seen. Or want to.
Jill, your recent court stint made me realize how important it is to settle fairly from the outset and to not expect the STBX to actually follow through with promises. This is a court ordered promise, but it seems as if the courts don't give a rat's A%% whether they do what they say they will or not.
I guess the moral here is to take the cash or property even if its less than a promise for something in the future. And be in control of what happens. After all, even if you take a 50% share of something, 50% is better than zero.
And while I'm at it, why do these judges let these guys/girls get away with this crap?