Oh, I'm so there with you on that urge. But, you need to be the bigger person here. Really, all it would show is that his wife is a "crazy-stalker-bitch" and confirm his decisions.
But, I know the hurt in the pit of your stomach and need to confront, really I do.
Me 36 Husband 35 D5 S2 separated: 10/29/07-present Served divorce papers 1/22/09 "When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."