I have stopped talking about us with those friends. That all happened before I found this site.
The reason I say that it will stick this time, is that we had a really good year when our youngest was born. That was, even in my mind, one of our best years. I have used that to look back at what I did differently during that time. However, I think that the pregnancy caused that temp change and of course it didn't last.
I do think your exactly right. She needs time to be convinced. I have never in the past had this type of change. I didn't think I needed to in the past. Man was I wrong! I have made a lot of strides in the last 18 months, but this book has shown me that there are still things that I need to work on.
I can see now how that sounded... That is not what I meant, but that is probably what she heard... (Dang it!)
My plan is to be consistant, give her the distance she needs, but be there for her and love on her when I can.
