You are absolutely right Michelle, I do have control over that. I will just backoff. I know he will be very busy since he is now working two jobs. I really think he needs to prove to himself that he can do everything alone. He doesn't want to be dependent on me.

You are also right that I am being negative, and jumping to conclusions. I just won't let it bother me if he doesn't call. At this point I kind of just want to go home and go to bed...so I am not sure that I will even care if he doesn't call. I need to detach again and not take things so personally

My voice is getting worse. I almost have to whisper and it hurts to talk I talk on the phone a good bit at work...so that sucks.

Kris