Yes. I have sent him many thank you cards in the past. They have been friendly and appreciative. I think he likes them even though he doesn’t say so. In Jan, he mentioned he knows I miss him by the fact that I send him cards and emails. When I responded with “Should I stop sending them?”, he said “I am not saying that.” So I think he likes getting them.
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get busy and continue to give H space
been doing this for 20 months! He knows I am giving him space. He said so at the end of Dec.
To be honest, I think he wished he went on vacation with me. On Mon, he said “If I went with you, I wouldn’t have been able to walk for 2.5 hours…” Why would he even bring it up, if he wasn’t contemplating going on vacation with me? I didn’t even ask him. Plus he asked if I preferred the beach or a cruise for a vacation. His choice is a cruise and he was testing to see if I would prefer a cruise over the beach. Again, I think he was asking in relation to the possibility of going on vacation with me. And if he did, it’d be a cruise. That’s his suggestion every time we discussed vacation venues before the S.
When I asked him for the dog-sitting favor, I mentioned I didn’t invite him to go on vacation with me because I thought he wouldn’t be interested in going away with me. When I first told him about the vacation venue, he sounded disappointed and surprised. I am pretty sure he was disappointed that I didn’t invite him to go on vacation with me this last time. The day before the vacation, when he came to pick up the dog, he mentioned his passport had expired – meaning he couldn’t have gone with me anyway.
So now, with the Hawaii family reunion coming up, I feel I have to ask him but give him the option to decline. Anyway, I am still praying about it.
