Hi Red,
Thanks for sharing your update. It's very encouraging! I have a question:

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H still has some MLC "symptoms" that I don't know will ever go away.


What kind of symptoms?

Also, I had to tell you that I totally relate to this:

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I agree communication is very important. I never was good at, mainly due to my upbringing. I wasn't allowed to "talk back" or voice my opinions as a child, and have difficulty doing it to this day. I was/am a people pleaser, so when things bothered me I didn't say a word. Until it would boil up to the top and spill over. And it got ugly...trust me. Very ugly


Thanks!


me- 42
H- 51
married 11 years
D-9, S-9, D-3

bomb 4/07
h moved out 8/07
h moved back 4/08