I wish I would have put it this way instead of saying that he had to choose. I feel that if I back down at all now that he will just run all over me, but I also feel that it may come back to bite me in the end.
He needs to get some help in the worst way. I know she is just a symptom of all of his bigger issues, but it was just SO innapropriate and over the line, I just am not able to deal with that anymore and that he is still interested in someone that would do that do another person, let alone his wife just shows me how far down he has sunk.
Can anyone suggest a way to put it this way (What Michelle posted) without losing anymore ground with boundary setting?
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option
