Thanks Ian, I needed to hear that. My youngest is going to be a challenge, he's very sensitive. I think he worries to much about his loyalites between his Mom and Me. He's way to young to worry about that. I try to reinforce how much we both love him despite our situation and that he doesn't have to choose between us.

At one point, I was so focused on saving my marriage, that I didn't consider a game plan if I failed. Now that I've accepted it's final conclusion, it's goint to be an even more daunting task to transition my kids thought this.

On my oldest son's myspace bio, he states that he enjoys spending time with his Dad. I must be doing something right to get honorable mention on a teenager's myspace page. Especially with those aggressive teenage girls and guy friends demanding his attention.


"It is curious that physical courage should be so common in the world and moral courage so rare."
-Mark Twain