Every sitch is different so it may be that she notices your changes, but is reluctant to accept them as permanent.
You have a way of just highlighting important points. I know my WAW feels this way. She's told me things, at different times, like "I think you are doing these things thinking I will take you back, always wanted you do, one day I will have to be there for 5D when you change back - 5 or 10 years from now, etc..." I guess the only solution to it is be consistent and patient.
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I was on Facebook and saw that one of his girlfriends had sent him a video...I am struggling with not losing my top after seeing something like that. I don't even want to know what the video is.
Why on? Spying? or just regular there? I am sorry you are struggling with it. Just know you cannot control the action of the girl. Hold onto the messages you are getting from your H. You can't sit and worry about it. Having said that, I can't help but laugh at the wording of your quote...Was having visions that my WAW confronted me and loses her top...
