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Well,

I know she is at his apartment. He told me had meetings all day today and his car is there so it lets me know he lied. He also hasn't called since yesterday afternoon and hasn't returned a phone call that I made to him last night and this morning regarding our son. I am really trying hard to not go and confront them right now.

I know it won't solve anything. But, will it give me closure that this is over.


M:47
M:18
D16, S19
1st S 1/08-5/08
Reconciled/May 7, 2008
Left again Nov 9, 2009
I Filed: Nov 17, 2009
Final: April 14, 2010
EX walked away from kids too



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Nope! Don't do it, just recognize that your DBing efforts are gonna take a little longer than you thought. It's no picnic, I know.


Divorced February 27, 2012.

"Only by love is love awakened".~ Ellen G White
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Stay strong and don't do it. This is just a little set back, you can't give up yet.

Sara


Me-31 H-38
M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs
No kids
Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06
Found out about OW 12-24-07
Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08
OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08
OW is back 4-19-08
H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08
Filed for divorce 6-5-08
Divorced 7-2-08
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Oh, I'm so there with you on that urge. But, you need to be the bigger person here. Really, all it would show is that his wife is a "crazy-stalker-bitch" and confirm his decisions.

But, I know the hurt in the pit of your stomach and need to confront, really I do.


Me 36
Husband 35
D5
S2
separated:
10/29/07-present
Served divorce papers 1/22/09
"When the world gives out beneath your feet, it is time to learn how to fly."
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