What Michelle has posted is basically what I've told my H. I told him that he is free to see the OW, but I no longer want to be a part of the R. If he wants to live in our home with me (and therefore me paying the bills) he needs to end all contact with the OW. No cell phone calls, text messages, emails, sign language, seeing her, telegrams,(I went on and on with just about any form of communication I could think of). It worked. I think he still contacts her now and then, but their relationship has bascially ended. This was a 180 for me because before I was very passive and allowed him to do whatever he wanted.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08
