My H does talk about his emotions a little bit. He says that he isn't sure if he can see us married or not. Sometimes he sees himself single and other times he doesn't. He says that he doesn't feel connected to me because he is no longer sexually attracted to me. But really a lot of his emotions have seemed to be turned off. My H is very unhappy with his job situation as well and I know that is a big part of his issues.
The fact that your H wants to seek outside help is a really big deal! I wish my H would take that step. He needs to talk to someone about the issues he is facing within himself, but he just doesn't think it will help him any.
Me-31 H-38 M: 5 yrs T: 7 yrs No kids Went to Prostitutes 10-1-06 Found out about OW 12-24-07 Bomb on EA/PA: 1-2-08 OW ended it with H "for good" 3-8-08 OW is back 4-19-08 H and OW tell me that they are in love 5-19-08 Filed for divorce 6-5-08 Divorced 7-2-08