Thanks Fish. I was really just going with the flow. Clint Eastwood was on my mind
No foot rubs this coming weekend, maybe I will suggest one for myself "it's my turn, honey".
On another note: A bit of an "aha moment" last night. A peek into her tent...
I sent her one email the day before yesterday, mentioning a concert by an artist she likes, that I had heard announced on the radio. Thought she might like to know, just for herself.
Then yesterday I emailed her asking what time she was getting off work. So last night, she said to me (in a playful manner) "you can't go a day without contacting me, can you?" I said "Can too". Later, I thought about what she was really saying...she seems to see it as predictable and needy.
So, no calls or emails until I see her next time. I'm pissed about that, mostly at myself. But also at her too...this has always been our dynamic, with me initiating contact.
This is a perfect opportunity to change that dynamic.
