You are right Puppy, there are no guarantees, but you can only do the very best you can, so at the end of the day you have a clear conscience and can look yourself in the mirror.
The bonkers thing is just an added perk for you! :)~
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option