Well he's a lot more attentive/talkative today. He picked me up so we could buy some books for a new course and we talked on the way and back. Just light convo.
Seems his friend is a little peeved at him right now because friend thinks H is interested in a woman that friend is friends with. This woman is asking H about friend because it seems she likes friend. God I feel like we're in high school! I told H this woman isn't even his type! Gee if he was going to cheat I'd hope he went after someone a little more attractive and educated (sorry too bitchy?) Besides as H said the last thing he needs right now is a woman to complicate things. LOL I know a couple women who would love to get their hooks into him!
H was concerned about his friends attitude because friend won't even answer H's calls. I told him he should talk about it to friend and he told me to not say anything to friend. I think friend is being a DAM because he knows H is not out to get some booty and just needs to figure out his life.
Friend is a man who as far as I know never committed to his M of 20 years and has been a real d**k to his W. Has cheated both physically AND emotionally frequently but W only knows of 1 time!!! Not a good H but a good friend.
Anyways I KNOW that H isn't about to go off and mess around when his head is so clouded.
He's been texting me for the past hour but only work stuff. I think he wants me to know whats up because he's waiting to speak to the big boss at the office of the woman he had a short EA with. He wants to be on the up and up about that. I don't care anymore because I've gotten past what happened in Jan and have forgiven his one slip up in our M. It's nice that he's keeping me up to date while he's there though.
I guess that was journaling...thanks for listening/reading
Jen
Jen *The more anger towards the past you carry in your heart, the less capable you are of loving in the present*
