Originally Posted By: matt7373

My W tells me that I can come see/get her when ever I want.



that's very nice of her. wish i had the same privilege.


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I don't get to as much as I would like because of the long hours I work.




Maybe it is a good time for you to evaluate whether your actions/life, match up to your internal values.

Right now, your actions say your priorities are:

#1: your current job/income
#2: time with your daughter.


If your internal values say that time with your daughter, is more important than your current job, or how much money you make... maybe it's time for you to look for a different job. Or maybe just a different position in your company, that would have shorter hours?


My current status: june 2006. Wife ran out and filed D.
Finalized Jan 11, 2010, after 12.5 years M.
3 wonderful sons caught in the middle