tal,

I bet it's not he doesn't want to spend time with you - he sounds stressed out and maybe he his just at a stage when he won't enjoy spending money on anything and deep down inside he knows he won't make good company.

I am not tyring to belittle how you feel; I am just trying to put another perspective on things. Maybe he felt he spent more money than he thought it was going to cost at Disney? I know how easy it is to blow the $$ there and you don't want to restrict yourselves when on holiday and the kids really want things etc....

If you do get a chance to talk to him why don't you ask him if there is anything bothering him. It's so easy to get the post vacation blues.....and maybe he's not looking forward to working away fron home in the summer and that's why he arranged the extra three days to unwind- maybe that's a bit of a carrot for him. Is there any way you could join him for those last three days?

I am sorry he is making you feel this way at the moment \:\(


Saffie
me 46
H 46
M in 1986
D20,D18,S16,D13
H's A 01/05 to 07/06
H recommitted to M 07/06
renewed vows 09/06
Going from strength to strength