Sorry for u. Forget her and forget divorce busting. get your kids and move on. somethings or some people simply are not worth it. your wife is playing you bad. do not put up with it- you and your kids deserve better. devote your time to finding someone else. life is too short and the world is too big. sry this is not db lauguage but my two cents says your sitch is a lost cause. sry-