I told him he has to choose and I mean it, but I really did want to give him the time I promised him to work it out. I realize I have put myself in a Catch 22, if he chooses me, he will be angry and resentful for me "making him" give her up and if he chooses her, he will feel whatever about me walking away.
I'm not a very good DB'er in my own sitch, but it was just too out of control for me. I can't spend the next few months wondering when she is going to spew forth more disgusting nuggets of information.
I'm not the cell phone account holder, he is, so I can't change my number w/out him.
I appreciate the response!
M:39 H:39 K:S14;D8 T:22yr M:15yrs S:12/28/07 EA/PA 3/14/08 OW preg 11/17/08 born 12/12/08 his ~~~~~~~ Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option